Chapter 7 · Use relationships you already have

Make Referrals Easier Without Making Them Awkward

How to get more referrals: make your work easy to describe, set up a simple customer referral program and thank people without pressure.

All chapters
  1. 1. Attention or conversion
  2. 2. Customers to attract
  3. 3. Offer and proof
  4. 4. Choose your channels
  5. 5. First customers
  6. 6. Past customers
  7. 7. Referrals
  8. 8. Google reviews
  9. 9. Local marketing
  10. 10. Referral partners
  11. 11. Commercial clients
  12. 12. Bids and tenders
  13. 13. Google Business Profile
  14. 14. Service and location pages
  15. 15. Hiring an SEO company
  16. 16. Content from your jobs
  17. 17. Customer acquisition cost
  18. 18. Google Ads
  19. 19. Local Services Ads
  20. 20. Facebook ads
  21. 21. Lead marketplaces
  22. 22. Quiet season
  23. 23. A website that gets inquiries
  24. 24. From inquiry to contract
  25. 25. Measure your marketing
  26. 26. Outsource marketing
  27. 27. By business type
  28. 28. Marketing plan
  29. Marketing plan template
  30. Campaign test brief
  31. Message templates
  32. Weekly marketing review
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  1. Create a forwardable introduction
  2. Keep referral incentives separate from reviews

Customers can appreciate your work and still not know who to recommend you to. “Tell your friends” asks them to invent the situation, explain your service and find your details.

Make the connection more concrete. After a suitable completion conversation, explain the type of work you are looking for and provide something easy to forward.

If someone you know is planning [specific project] in [area], you are welcome to pass on our details. This page shows the kind of work we do and how to request an estimate: [link]. No need to share their number with us; they can contact us directly.

This protects the friend's choice and gives the customer a simple action. It also reduces inaccurate introductions to services or areas you do not cover.

Create a forwardable introduction

Use a short page or message with your service, area, a relevant example and one contact route. The customer should not need to write a testimonial on your behalf. If someone introduces you by email, thank them and take responsibility for the next step.

Respond well to referred inquiries. A referrer is lending reputation, and silence can make them reluctant to recommend you again. With permission, close the loop: “Thanks for the introduction; we have spoken and agreed the next step.” Do not disclose prices or private project details unnecessarily.

Keep referral incentives separate from reviews

If you offer a referral reward, make the terms clear and check whether the arrangement is appropriate for the trade, customer and jurisdiction. Do not make payment depend on a positive public review. Some professional relationships also restrict commissions or require disclosure.

You can begin without incentives. Reliability, a clear fit and an easy introduction may be enough to test whether the route has potential.

Track: who introduced the inquiry, whether it fitted, whether you contacted them promptly and what happened. Review concentration too. A business dependent on one enthusiastic referrer can become vulnerable when that person moves or stops sending work. Appreciate the relationship while building another source.

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